Wedding Pocket Square for the Groom: How to Choose the Right One

One Pocket Square, Two Sides — How the Quentino Design Works

Every Quentino wedding pocket square is made in white with a sewn colour border. The fabric itself has two distinct sides: one is a smooth, subtle sheen — almost silky — and the other is a soft matte finish. This isn't a coincidence. It means you can flip the pocket square depending on the overall look you're going for, and depending on what the bride is wearing.

If the bridal gown has a delicate lustre or is made from satin, the glossy side facing out adds visual harmony. If the bride is wearing matte lace or a flowy chiffon dress, the matte side gives a more cohesive, grounded feel. It's a small decision with a visible result — especially in photographs.

See both sides of the pocket square in our short video:

The border colour is stitched from the same fabric we use for our ties and bow ties. That means a groom wearing a sage green bow tie and a sage green–bordered pocket square is wearing a genuinely matched set — not two items that happen to look similar. That fabric-level consistency is something you won't find in mass-produced accessories.

Which Colour Border Works for Your Wedding?

Choosing the right border colour is easier than it sounds when you work backwards from the wedding palette. The white base stays consistent — it reads as formal and clean in any setting. The border is what connects the groom's look to the rest of the day.

Dusty pink and blush — romantic and widely loved

Dusty pink is one of the most popular wedding colours we work with — and for good reason. It pairs naturally with a navy or charcoal suit, adds warmth without being loud, and photographs beautifully in both indoor and outdoor settings. The dusty pink border pocket square works well when the bridesmaids are wearing blush or rose, or when the bride has blush-toned floral arrangements. For an even lighter touch, the blush pink border is slightly cooler and softer — ideal for summer garden weddings or pastel-themed ceremonies.

Sage green and emerald — nature-inspired elegance

Green wedding palettes have grown steadily over the past few years — especially for outdoor ceremonies and barn or vineyard receptions. Sage green works best with a light grey or warm beige suit. It reads as organic and calm rather than bold. Emerald green, on the other hand, brings genuine contrast — it stands out against a dark navy or black suit and photographs with real depth. A great combination for an autumn wedding in a manor or castle setting.

Teal, dark teal and burgundy — for the groom who means business

Teal and dark teal are ideal for weddings that lean a bit more dramatic — evening ceremonies, castle receptions, or cooler-season weddings in October or November. The teal border against a white base looks crisp and confident with a charcoal or dark blue suit. Burgundy is a classic for winter weddings and works exceptionally well when the wedding has deep red or wine-toned floral decorations.

Lavender, powder, beige and beyond

We also offer lavender purple, light pink-purple, salmon, mustard yellow, powder, beige, and royal blue borders — each made from the same fabric as the matching tie or bow tie. Whether you're planning a whimsical spring wedding with lavender florals or a bold autumnal look with mustard accents, there's a border that fits.

How to Coordinate the Groom, Best Man and Groomsmen

The most common question we hear from couples is: should the groom and groomsmen all wear the same pocket square? The honest answer is that matching doesn't have to mean identical. What works well is a clear visual logic — a thread that connects the group without making everyone look like a uniform.

A practical approach that our customers have loved: the groom wears a bow tie and pocket square in the same border colour — say, dusty pink. The best man wears a tie in the same dusty pink, with a matching pocket square. The rest of the groomsmen wear just the pocket square, no tie. Everyone is clearly part of the same palette, but there's a visual hierarchy that reads naturally in photos.

For wedding guests or fathers who want to be part of the look without being too formal, a single pocket square in the wedding colour is enough. It's a small gesture that shows awareness without overstepping.

4 Mistakes to Avoid When Choosing a Wedding Pocket Square

1. Playing it too safe with a plain white square

A fully white pocket square with no border is technically correct, but it disappears against a white shirt and adds nothing to the look. The border is what creates visual interest and connects the pocket square to the rest of the outfit. Don't be afraid of colour — even a soft powder or blush border makes a meaningful difference without being loud.

2. Choosing a pocket square that doesn't actually match the tie fabric

Two items can look similar in a product photo and still clash in person — different fabrics reflect light differently, and what photographs as "dusty pink" in one brand may read as "hot pink" next to another. The advantage of our border system is that the pocket square border and the tie are cut from the same roll of fabric. There's no guesswork.

3. Ignoring the bride's dress finish

If the bride is wearing a heavily embellished or structured gown, the glossy side of the pocket square adds a complementary formality. For softer, flowing dresses — think boho, chiffon, or lace — the matte side reads as more relaxed and harmonious. It's worth thinking about before the wedding morning.

4. Ordering pocket squares last

Pocket squares are easy to forget until everything else is sorted — and then couples rush the decision. If you're ordering ties or bow ties from us, add the matching pocket squares at the same time. You'll have the whole set, it arrives together, and there's no last-minute panic a week before the wedding.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the best wedding pocket square for the groom?

A white pocket square with a colour border that matches the groom's tie or bow tie is the most elegant and photogenic option. It looks formal and intentional without being flashy. If the groom wears a dusty pink bow tie, a dusty pink–bordered pocket square from the same fabric is the natural choice.

Should the best man wear the same pocket square as the groom?

They can wear the same border colour, but it works best when there's a subtle distinction — for example, the groom wears a bow tie and pocket square, while the best man wears a tie and the same pocket square. Same colour palette, different accessory weight. This is the combination we recommend most often and the one our customers tend to be happiest with in photos.

What colour pocket square goes with a navy suit at a wedding?

Navy suits are versatile. Dusty pink, blush, sage green, teal and burgundy all work well against navy. For a summer outdoor wedding, dusty pink or sage green add warmth. For an autumn or evening wedding, teal or burgundy bring more depth and drama.

Can wedding guests wear a pocket square too?

Absolutely. A pocket square in the wedding colour is one of the nicest things a wedding guest can do — it shows they took the occasion seriously without trying to compete with the wedding party. Fathers of the bride or groom often love this idea. One pocket square is all it takes.

What makes Quentino pocket squares different from others?

The border on each Quentino pocket square is sewn from the exact same fabric used for our ties and bow ties. That means a genuine fabric-level match — not just a colour approximation. Each piece is handmade in the Czech Republic and the two-sided fabric (glossy and matte) gives you flexibility on the day itself.

Looking for a complete set? Match your pocket square with a Quentino tie or bow tie in the same border colour — handmade in the Czech Republic from the same fabric.

With care and attention to every stitch

David, Petra & Tobi